The myth of 50/50 timesharing

Since the passing of the new parenting bill, many have believed that Florida is now a 50/50 time sharing state. While the words "custodial" and/or "primary residential" parent are no longer used, this does not mean that children will spend equal time with each parent in each and every case.

First, Nothing in the Florida law says that there is to be equal time with each parent. Instead, the law makes it clear that timesharing is to be determined based upon the unique circumstances of each and every family. There are several factors which judges need to review in order to make this decision, including, the amount of time each parent spends with the children and the amount of involvement in specific parenting tasks. The simple statement by a parent that he or she wants 50/50 timesharing simply is not enough.

Second, as most of us recognize, there simply cannot be a "one size fits all" approach to parenting. What works for one family may not work for another. It is also important to keep in mind that the standard is what is in the best interest of the child. Although this would seem to be on everyone's mind, those that fight to divide their children's time to be exactly equal may be ignoring the wants and needs of the particular child or children. How much time a child spends with either parent depends on the age of the child, the activities of the child and other factors. This does not mean, and judge would appear to agree, that it is always in the children's best interest to spend only alternating weekends with one parent either. The bottom line is that any parenting plan and timesharing schedule needs to be tailored to the particular family, with special consideration to the needs of the children involved