Do-it-yourself divorce is becoming more popular these days, especially among those who feel that they can’t afford to divorce. Many divorcing couples also fear that hiring divorce lawyers will lead to emotional and costly battles over children, property and finances, so they are opting for the do it yourself divorce. There are a wide range of options for DIY divorce, including using an online divorce service, obtaining a large pile of divorce forms from the Clerk’s office, mediation or hiring a divorce lawyer to draft or review a Marital Settlement Agreement. The DIY divorce may not work for many, but it also may be the only financially feasible option for those who cannot afford to divorce. No article can take the place of legal advice- but this five part series will give some tips for the do-it-yourself divorce process.
Before embarking on a do-it-yourself divorce, it is important to know what the issues are and what you can and should expect in terms of timesharing, support (child support and alimony, if it applies) and dividing property and liabilities. It is highly encouraged that the first step should be to consult with a divorce attorney. While this is the step that most do it yourself divorce seekers want to avoid, it is crucial to have an understanding of divorce law and your rights. Too many times people in do it yourself divorce situations enter into a settlement agreement and forget to include things only to find out later that either they have waived their rights or that they will now have to spend even more money clarifying their Marital Settlement Agreement. A free divorce consultation may sound tempting, but will likely be a brief meeting with little information provided about how to go forward with the divorce process. It is recommended that you have a thorough initial consultation with a divorce attorney to discuss your children, proposed timesharing, your income, assets and liabilities. During this initial divorce consultation, a divorce lawyer can give you suggestions on how to divide property, calculate child support and divide assets. A divorce lawyer can also discuss with you the information you need to gather in order to make decisions as well as the potential problems that may arise. The cost of an initial divorce consultation may be a small price to pay considering what is at stake.
During an initial divorce consultation, there are several items that must be addressed. If you have children, your divorce lawyer should explain to you the changes in Florida law regarding parenting plans and time sharing. Florida law now requires a parenting plan in all divorce cases, so your do it yourself divorce plan should take this into consideration. You can also discuss with your divorce attorney whether or not to include extras such as college tuition and extracurricular activities. During the initial divorce consultation, your divorce attorney can also review the particulars of your financial situation, especially the big concern for most do it yourself divorce seekers, which is the residence. Your divorce lawyer can discuss with you whether you should keep your house or sell it, who will live in the house until it is is sold and how you will pay not only the monthly bills but any expenses and repairs that arise. In order to have a complete Marital Settlement Agreement, you need to be aware of these concerns.
These are just a few of the concerns you need to discuss with a divorce lawyer. There may be more depending on your specific situation. In the next article, I will discuss how to become familiar with your financial situation and how to deal with questions about assets, liabilities and income.
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